TL;DR: The fastest route into remote work is often a negotiation with the employer you already have, not an application to a new one. A few months of documented remote working inside your current role is the exact evidence the next employer screens for, and it costs you nothing to acquire. Remote Work Europe tracks which roles are genuinely open to people making this move for the first time, and the pattern is consistent: proof beats intention.
Somewhere around 2007 there was a widely-taught piece of advice about how to start working from home. You engineered a reason to be out of the office – a plumber, a delivery, something unarguable happening in the middle of the day – and you worked from your kitchen table instead. You made sure that day was the most productive of your month, and then you mentioned it had gone rather well, and wondered aloud whether next Wednesday might work too…
Tim Ferriss wrote it down and The 4-Hour Workweek sold several million copies, so a lot of people arrived at remote work through that door. It was genuinely good advice at the time. I had been working remotely for eight years by the time the book came out, and I recognised the manoeuvre, because in 1999 there was no other way to do it. You could not ask for something that did not have a name, and at the time I was extremely unusual in having a full-time work-from-home employed job. (Mr Ferriss has a lot to answer for in other ways too, because that book planted the seeds that ultimately ended up with me moving countries. That’s a different article though.)
The era of working from home by stealth is over, and the reason it is over is the point of this article. We now have written work-from-home policies, work-from-anywhere schemes, compliance departments, and cross-border tax questions that did not exist when this approach was invented. Which means the stealth approach is no longer necessary, and it is now actively the wrong move: you cannot move your desk to another country and hope nobody runs the numbers. And we now have much better technical ways of checking where somebody is and where work is actually being performed – checks that could easily cost you your job, because of the risks they put on your employer.
You do not need to deceive your manager, twenty years on from The 4-Hour Workweek. You need to make your case properly instead.
Why your current job might be your remote gateway role
A remote gateway role is a role where somebody can bring the experience they already have into a first remote setting. Most people hear that and picture a job advert. It does not have to be one.
The barrier facing an experienced professional who wants to work remotely is almost never the work itself. It is that they have never been seen doing the work remotely, other than those few months we’ve all tried to forget during 2020. Employers screen for remote work experience because it is cheap to screen for, but the person who has spent twenty years being excellent in an office has nothing to put in that box.
The neat thing about this problem is that the person best placed to solve it is your current employer, who already knows how great you are. They have years of evidence about your judgement, your reliability, and what happens when you are left alone with something difficult. A new employer has a CV and forty minutes, so they’d be taking a much bigger risk.
So the question worth asking before you open a job board is a different one. Not where can I find a remote job, but what would it take for the job I already have to become one?
What changed since working from home by stealth
Three things, and they all point the same way.
Remote work has a name and a process now. Most mid-sized and large employers in Europe have a written policy covering home working, hybrid arrangements, or both. A policy is a thing you can read, and a thing you can apply under. In the UK there is a statutory right to request flexible working, with a defined process and a defined timeframe – we cover how that works in our guide to UK flexible working requests. Several other European jurisdictions have equivalents. This is the single biggest change: the stealth approach existed because there was no front door, and now there usually is one. That doesn’t mean it’s a door standing open for you to step through but at least you can square up and knock firmly upon it.
Employers have their own compliance problem. When you ask to work from your own home in your own country, you are asking about productivity and trust. When you ask to work from another country, you are asking your employer to take on tax exposure, social security questions, insurance, and possibly a corporate presence in a jurisdiction where they have none. Those are not the same conversation, and treating them as one is the most common way this ask fails, along with all those years of trust you’ve built up. More on that below.
Proof is now the currency. Fifteen years ago nobody could screen for remote experience because almost nobody had any. Now enough people do that employers can ask. That changes what a few months of documented home working is actually worth to you: it is not a perk any more, it is a credential.
What a job description actually is
Imagine explaining a job advert to someone who has never encountered the concept of employment.
You would have to say something like this. An organisation decides it needs some work done. Several different people then write down what they imagine the person doing that work should be like. Some of it describes the last person who held the post. Some of it is what the department wishes it had. Some of it is copied from a similar advert somewhere else, and some of it is there because a system asked for a minimum number of bullet points. Or because it didn’t seem like enough separate things to add up to a typical 40-hour-a-week contract, because for some reason we measure knowledge work like we were producing cars on a factory assembly line.
These fragments are combined into a single list, and the list is then published as though it described a real human being.
Applicants read it, and score themselves against it, item by item. Anyone matching most of the list feels encouraged. Anyone matching half of it feels disqualified. The people who disqualify themselves that way are not a random sample. The list, remember, was assembled by a committee describing a person who does not exist.
This made a certain sense when a job really was a fixed bundle of standardised tasks and the point of hiring was to find someone who fitted the slot. But for most knowledge workers it does not describe anything real. What you are actually paid for is judgement, attitude, and the particular combination of things you know, and the fact that you are the one who has spent four years learning how this organisation works. None of that fits in a bullet point, so none of it appears on the list, so a stranger reading your CV against that list cannot see it.
Which is the argument for starting where you are. Your current employer is not scoring you against a fabricated composite. They have watched you work. Everything invisible on a job advert is the thing they already know about you – and it is the reason your ask has a better chance than your application does.
How to negotiate remote work with your current employer
There are three different asks here, and people lose the negotiation by making the wrong one first. They are separated by how much you are asking your employer to absorb.
Ask one: a trial, framed as a trial
Start by taking the risk out of it for them as much as possible. Propose an experiment that could make you even more productive and happy and fulfilled in your work: such as two days a week for three months, with an agreed review date. This is the lowest-stakes version and the one most likely to get a yes, because your manager is not committing to anything permanent and can stop it without a conversation about failure.
No, as a general rule, we do not consider hybrid as any part of real remote work, and you won’t see permanent hybrid roles in Remote Work Europe Connected or advertised on our country guides. But we’re talking pragmatic solutions here, and ways of building a bridge to where you really want to end up.
It is also the ask that builds the evidence for the other two. Go in with the review date already proposed, and with what you will both look at when you get there – output, response times, whatever your function is actually measured on. A manager who is nervous about this is usually nervous about not being able to tell whether it is working. Solve that for them and you have removed most of the objection.
Ask two: a permanent arrangement
This is what most people actually want, and it is much easier to win after a trial than instead of one. The framing that works is continuity: this has been running for six months, here is what happened, why that’s good, and now let’s stop reviewing it.
This is the moment to ask for it in writing. A permanent remote arrangement that exists only as an understanding with your current manager evaporates the moment that manager changes jobs, and it is worth very little as evidence to a future employer. By this point you have already gathered the evidence and the parameters, and written down anything you had to work out as you went along – so they pretty much only have to review it and sign it.
Ask three: moving the role itself remote
Rare, and honest about why: it is generally available only to people who are genuinely difficult to replace. If the organisation would struggle to fill your seat, it will bend the seat. If it would not, it will not, and no amount of good framing changes that. Only you know your real worth to your employer and how you’re performing.
If necessary save it for your review, and why not go out and interview for some other competitive roles anyway just to get a benchmark of what you’re potentially worth ahead of that. When you know what you’re worth in the market then you can decide what’s worth it to you and instead of a raise, you might negotiate for greater flexibility on a permanent basis.
This might sound like a dangerous move in these days of layoffs and contractions, which is why I strongly recommend you do the hiring test anyway, especially if you’ve been in position a long time and you know you’re doing well. Find out what you’re worth and what’s out there. Maybe you’ll even spot the perfect remote role but if not you’ll have a much clearer idea of what you can negotiate for where you already are. Remember that good people are difficult and above all expensive to replace, so if you’re good at your job, you should have some negotiating capital.
What makes you hard to replace
When I was first recruiting remote teams, filtering candidates on previous remote experience was simply not possible. Almost nobody had any. I often wished I could – I did not always get it right, and I hired people who I thought had the aptitude for it and who turned out never to have had it tested.
Being able to demand proven remote experience is a luxury. An employer only screens on it when it has applicants to spare. That cuts both ways, and it is worth understanding before you negotiate, because it tells you how strong your position actually is.
If your function is crowded – if there are a lot of good people doing what you do currently looking for work – your employer knows it, and your ask is weaker. If your specialism is scarce, or if your value is bound up in things that are specific to this organisation rather than portable, your ask is much stronger than you probably think it is.
Be concrete about this before the conversation. What would genuinely be hard to replace about you? Institutional knowledge, relationships with particular clients, a qualification the team has only one of, a system only you fully understand. That is the ground you are negotiating from, and most people underestimate it because it is invisible to them and obvious to everyone else. So take the time ahead of this conversation to brainstorm out your unique value.
Working from home and working from another country are completely different asks
This is the part that goes wrong most often, and it is worth being blunt about it.
Asking to work from your house instead of the office is a management question. Asking to work from a house in a different country is a legal and financial one. Your employer may create a taxable presence in the country you are sitting in; your social security position may change; there may be employment-law consequences for them that have nothing to do with how well you do your job. This is the reason a manager who was relaxed about working from home can turn abruptly cautious when a border enters the conversation, and it is usually not personal.
If your ambition is the second thing, ask for the first thing first, and let the cross-border conversation be a separate one with a longer runway. We have written about permanent establishment risk and about whether to keep your job or go freelance when you move abroad, because the answer genuinely differs depending on the country, the employer, and how long you intend to be there.
Nothing here is tax or immigration advice for your situation. Get it from someone qualified in both jurisdictions before you move.
What this buys you next
Say you get the two days a week. Say it runs for six months and it goes fine.
You now have the thing that was missing. Not a feeling that you would be good at this – documented, referenceable, dated experience of doing your actual job without supervision, which is precisely the box the next employer is trying to tick. You can name it on a CV. Your manager can confirm it. It converts you from someone who wants to work remotely into someone who does.
That is the whole argument for treating your current role as the gateway. It is the cheapest remote experience available to you, you can get it without changing employer, and it is worth more in an application than any course or certificate you could buy.
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When you are ready to move – and once you have the evidence behind you – this is where the roles are.
When this is the wrong advice
At risk of stating the obvious, this only works if you do not hate your job!
If you are trying to leave because of the work, the culture, or the people, then negotiating to do the same job from your spare room fixes the commute and nothing else. Six months of that is six months you could have spent applying elsewhere, and you will arrive at the end of it with better evidence and no more appetite. It’s really important to examine your motivations carefully because working from home could look like a good solution to some of the office politics. But it will not fix a toxic workplace relationship of any kind, all it might do is mask a situation for a while, which could potentially delay fixing it properly.
But if the job is fundamentally fine and the location is the problem – if what you want is your existing work in a life that fits around school hours, or a health condition, or a move you are planning – then you are in the best possible starting position, and most people in it never ask.
Frequently asked questions
Will asking make my employer think I am about to leave? It is a fair worry. Frame it as a productivity and retention conversation rather than a personal preference, and propose the trial with its review date attached. An employee proposing a measurable experiment does not read like an employee with one foot out of the door.
What if my employer has no remote policy at all? Then you are asking for a precedent, which is a harder ask and a slower one. Smaller organisations often say yes more easily precisely because there is no policy to amend – it is one conversation with one decision-maker.
How long does the evidence need to be to count? Long enough to be a pattern rather than an experiment. Six months of a consistent arrangement reads as normal; three weeks reads as a trial that has not concluded.
Does part-time remote count as remote experience? Yes, and it is worth stating plainly on an application. Two days a week for a year is a year of evidence that you can work unsupervised.
Should I mention I want to move abroad? Not in the first conversation. Get the home-working arrangement established on its own merits, because the cross-border question involves an entirely different set of people at your employer and a much longer decision.
